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CONTENTS Introduction x PART ONE: A New Start 　 Making decisions x You and your ex xx Your single self xx　　 PART TWO: Looking Forward -- Looking Back 　 How we do relationships xx Why couples argue xx The unconscious contract xx Unfinished business xx 　 PART THREE: Managing New Relationships 　 Uncertainty xx Breaking and avoiding negative cycles xxx Relationship trauma xxx Sex xxx The relationship lifecycle xxx Happy ever after Index xxx xxx EXERCISES Plan your life xx Using your younger self xx Topics for discussion xx Vulnerability xx Qualities xx Drivers xx Activity scoring xxx Talking point xxx What kind of life do I want? xxx I am the kind of person xxx QUIZZES Buried concerns xx How you argue xx How in touch with the past are you? xx Are you a hoper or a healer xxx